Thursday, April 25, 2013

TURNING POINT

Dear Friend:


In 1987, my parents’ marriage ended in divorce. I was newly married and had a one-year-old son. Determined to succeed where they had failed, I began to search and read all kinds of self-help books. Watching the “experts” on TV became my daily ritual.  
I asked myself, “Why was I born? What is the purpose to life? Is there a God?” God knew my heart and quickly began to answer those questions. He put three women in my life in one week who introduced me to God through the Bible. Each in her unique way told me about the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I learned that God knew the secret place where I was created, and He wanted me to be born. I came to recognize Jesus as my Savior. I joined a church where studying and memorizing the Bible became my greatest joy.
In 1997, a major crisis hit our home. Now I clearly see that God wanted to teach me more about the plans and purpose He has for my family. That crisis has actually become a source of encouragement for me, a real faith-builder that birthed my ministry to women. Most importantly, my marriage survived, a job was replaced and my young adult children now know Jesus.
I met a lady recently that had a similar crisis as mine, but her story unfolded much differently. A divorce, loss of employment - I feel so sorry for her. She recalls that they were not involved in a church and her husband would make business deals with no prayer. She said, “Sometimes we would make a business deal and then ask God, ‘Oh, by the way can you bless this?’”
Tears of gratitude well up in my eyes remembering the provision of God for our situation. Thankfully, my 1987 conversion brought me to a church family who helped us get through our crisis.
With all this reflection, the Holy Spirit has prompted me to write letters of gratitude to the Godly people who were there for us at just the right time. I wonder if they need encouragement right now.  Does someone come to your mind who has helped you get through a difficult time? I encourage you to take a moment and jot a note of thanks right now.
PRAYER:  Heavenly Father, Thank You! I am convinced that You helped me to pray, and in answer to those prayers, set many things into motion to provide for our needs during our time of crisis. Help me to continue life filled with Your hope. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“A faith and knowledge resting on the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time” (Titus 1:2 NIV).

Monday, April 8, 2013

Everybody Loves....

Dear Friend:

…. Raymond. Do you know the show Everybody Loves Raymond? If so, then you have seen when Raymond blurts out something to Deborah and right away you think, "Oh no! He shouldn't have said that!" My husband had one of those moments. He said it, and he could not take it back. I immediately put up my defense. He's not going to get away with that. I'm going to make him pay. At that moment, I was making his lunch. The thought came to me, I just won’t give him lunch.

Then a whispering, sweet voice said, "Elaine, have you ever said anything wrong?" If I have to be honest, yes. "Have I forgiven you and given you grace?" Yes, Lord, you have. "If My grace is sufficient for you, then my grace is sufficient for your husband. Can you make him the lunch for me?" With you, Lord, I can do it. Without you, Lord, I want to ......

I made the sandwich. My mind and heart were battling the whole time. I will throw the sandwich at him. Honestly! I can make this sandwich and serve it with Christ. I made the lunch and gave it to my unsuspecting man. I got to thinking, I can really only do this because of God’s grace. I didn’t deserve what my husband said, but I chose to give him grace.

Have you ever felt that way toward anyone? When the whisper of God speaks, sometimes I ignore it and do not listen. It is hard at times.

"Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit" (Romans 8:5 NLT).

I did have revengeful thoughts. My insides hurt. I did not want to serve, but when I finally did, I felt really good inside. I was able to move on. Only God can do that for me and you. What do you do with your revengeful thoughts? If you watch the show on TV called Revenge, you will realize things get even messier when you choose revenge.

Let's Pray: Father, sinful things sometimes dominate within me. Help me to stop and listen to You. Forgive me for the times I have not listened. I want to please You. In Jesus' name, Amen.